public speaking - Your Body Speaks Volumes, But Do You Know What It Is Saying? Posted By : Anne Warfield, CSP

Always remember that a person will listen more to your body language than to your words spoken! On the other hand if a person says "you are doing a great job" and their teeth are gritted, they have a half smile and a stiff body , you will be confused as to what they really meant after they walk away. By changing our voice tone on certain words or by adjusting our body language we can give a whole different meaning to what we said. To be perceived positively with body language, I recommend you make eye contact, smile, nod occasionally during their conversation, lean slightly in to them and tilt your head to one side as you are listening. If you walk with your shoulders slumped, head down, speak in a flat tone, and/or fidget a lot, you will be seen as a person who can't make up their mind, is more negative or that needs a lot of guidance. Ask a friend what body signs you show that give away your thoughts and feelings and then work to change those body signs.

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